Picture
Okay, this is really spooky. It seems that every time I write a novel I am either on the way to fulfilling some kind of unknown or subconscious prophecy, or my life changes in such a way that I start to become like the main character in my novel.

For instance, when I wrote the romantic comedy, The Other Boyfriend (TOB), in 2010, there were certain elements in the story that at the time were mainly fiction but partly based on an old ex-boyfriend. But lo and behold, within months of publishing TOB my marriage broke up and I discovered in my ex-husband aspects of the lying, cheating and thieving person he turned out to be--and which he shared with one of the characters in TOB! Ironically, when I started my first draft of TOB, I hadn't even met my now ex-husband. Yes, I started working on TOB about a year before I met him!

Now, I have just finished writing Playing With The Bad Boys--A Mia Ferrari Mystery; and suddenly, I've started to become more like her: confident, sassy, doesn't suffer fools gladly, assertive, strong, and a whole lot more. Well, I've always possessed these personality traits, but now they have become a lot more pronounced. And what's really strange is that Mia Ferrari works for a hotel group and this is where she stumbles upon her mysteries. Now, only this week, I have started consulting for a hotel group! You see, my bread and butter comes from consulting (this is until I become famous like JKRowling. LOL), and in between my consulting I write.

One of my present clients is a wholesaler and I have been consulting to them for 20 months. But as soon as I finished writing Mia's first mystery I landed my second client, and sure enough, like Mia, I will be working within a group of hotels Australia-wide. So how's that for spooky? I only hope that when I start consulting this coming week I won't stumple upon a dead body, like Mia does in her first mystery!

I know that writers draw from their life experience, but it all starts to get a little weird when something I write about ends up happening in my life at a later stage. On the upside, this sets me to thinking that I should write about winning Lotto! Hmm. Food for thought.

 
 
Picture
New Year’s resolution: Find a man who embodies the qualities that I have within myself.
 
After the recent breakup of my marriage with my very nasty, cheating and lying ex-husband, I have now promised myself that unless I find a man in future who has these qualities I so prize in myself: strength, courage, kindness, supportive, loyal, honest, generous, honourable, forgiving, loving, compassionate, and empathetic; I would rather be alone.
 
I am done with pandering to the selfish, the self-centered, the dream-robbers, the emotionally-stunted, the cheats, the liars and the thieves!
 
It's a tall order, don't you think, to be able to find a man like the one I want? So I have a feeling that I will be single for a loooooooooooooong time to come. But you know what they say: “Better to be alone than in bad company.”

CUT TO MUSIC FROM SERIES OF  "MISSION: IMPOSSIBLE"

We then hear the following:

"SYLVIA, YOUR MISSION, IF YOU CHOOSE TO ACCEPT IT, IS TO FIND SUCH A MAN. THIS BLOG WILL SELF-DESTRUCT IN 5 SECONDS."